6 Ways To Change A Behavior You Don't Like

6 Ways To Change A Behavior You Don't Like "How do I change a behavior?" "I've got a bad behavior I want gone!" "Am I too old to change a behavior?" "I can be stubborn, but I need some fast behavior modification." If you are reading this tutorial, there is something about yourself you want to change. A certain behavior or behaviors to be precise. What behaviors come to mind? Since our lives are the result of our long-term behaviors, you can regain control by making positive changes to your behavior patterns. Following these strategies will make it easier to change your behaviors and exert more control over your experiences: Make the new behavior as enjoyable as possible. For instance, you might dislike exercising, but if you could find a way to make it more enjoyable, you would partake more often in this healthy activity. Maybe you could exercise with a friend or discover a new form of exercise that you enjoy. The more agreeable the new task is to you, the more likely you are to do it. How are you going to make the new behavior more enjoyable?   Make a list of the positive benefits you'll receive. By making a list, you'll begin to see the task in a more positive light. Come up with as many benefits as you can and keep the list in plain view. For example, perhaps you feel like you should eat more nutritiously. Some of the positive aspects of healthier eating might include:  I'll feel better. My clothes will fit better. I'll enjoy more vigorous health. I'll be more attractive. I can play with the kids more easily. I can go hiking again without tiring half way through the trek. I'll feel a sense of pride. I can go to the pool without feeling embarrassed. What are the positive benefits you'll receive?   Make a decision. Just decide that you're going to do it; often that's the hardest part. Making a decision is the first step to accomplishment. Until that point, you're really just wishing. Are you ready NOW?   Contr... Read more